Last night roomie stopped by because he "accidentally" took one of my books and I had one of his, so we need to swap books and he was helping me move a couch to make room for my new TV (which I haven't purchased , yet).
It was weird to see him. His eyes told a story of so much pain & stress and I didn't get it! He broke up with me! You think he would be happy and enjoying his new life that he wanted so bad that he broke a 3 1/2 year relationship for. Don't get me wrong, my heart went out to him and I will always have a certain love for him, but I didn't want to go and rescue him, join in on the pitty party or jump his bones to make him feel all better.
I really am enjoying him not being in our apartment...excuse me...correction.... MY apartment (tee hee!) and I love having my own space and only worrying about me. After he left, I finished laundry and got ready to go out with Jay, Santa and some cops from their PD.
We headed off to Revolution bar/pub/club...really not sure what it was. It's in downtown Fullerton and is a small place. It's more like a meat market if anything!!! Guys do not take no for an answer!!! I had one guy keep asking me to dance and Jay is the coolest. He kept saying "sorry, man, she is with me!" But he still tried over, and over again!
All us girls always say that Jay is our "boyfriend," "we came with him" (then hug Jay), etc, etc. At one point us three girls were being asked to dance and at the same time we were all saying we were with Jay. I told Jay "might as well tell everyone that you are our pimp!" Cuz that is what it looked like, one guy and three girls all claiming to be his girlfriend. haha! A previous night Jay said he might get punch on of these nights cuz guys get jealous and mad when we say that. Oh well!
Needless to say, we are not going back! Well at least not on a Tuesday! The music was great, but the crowd is ghetto!
Oh...did I mention... roomie's friend saw me there. Haha! He did a double take and then stared at me the entire time he was passing me. Go figure that would be the time I am freakin Jay! NICE!!! Purrfect timing!